Move over Todd Phillips

I started writing an article about a stunning new lodge I found in The Cradle of Humankind – part of another hotel/lodge’s portfolio. When asking the CEO for some more information about this stunning little gem, I was told, not very subtly or politely that I would have to get the content and the photos approved by management before I could publish, as they have their own content writers. So there I was, mouth open while reading this email. Why, you ask? Well over the years that I have been assessing and rating hospitality establishments, I have been the one who gets paid to do this job. Glamorous you might think, but bloody hard work when it comes down to the nitty gritty. When I decide to write an article or do an editorial, it is because I want to, and NOT because I am getting paid to do it. It’s a favour to the establishment, and to give them more exposure.

After I received this “memo”, I decided “what the hell…”. I will write about something else of interest instead.

That brings me to the reason for this post. I know this wonderful, eloquent, mysterious, down to earth, reclusive, biggest Whitney Houston fan, friend who has the most amazing way with words, and a firm “grip” on South African culture, politics (which he hates!!) and society. On top of all that he is the only designer and seamster (for those who don’t know, a seamster is the male version of a seamstress) who I know personally, who designs, sews and makes the most exquisite garments for the rich and famous (well to me they are the rich and famous).

After very little thought (because I had already made up my mind) I decided to chat with him and ask if he would mind being a guest writer on my blog. He freaked out as he is VERY private. After a little discussion, we decided that I could use his writings on social media and post them on my blogsite from time to time.

So Mr Lanley Southern https://www.facebook.com/lanley.southern, welcome to my Shelbewhere blogsite. I KNOW that the people that support me are going to love you just as much as I do.